What the Book is About
This small book is about Adult Relationships. More precisely, it’s about our Intimate Relationships – those that involve sexual activities – and how sex is used (or abused) to help bond (or fracture) our intimate friendships.

The Approach
W.I. Thomas the famous sociologist invented a construct that he called “The
Definition of the Situation”. Simply put, the theory held that one could better understand the causes of behaviors of individuals if you could see out from inside the person’s mind – from their frame of reference - not the viewer’s frame of reference looking in at them.

Many of the writings in “Sensuality-Intimacy-Sex” take a similar approach. You’ll be able to visit short vignettes of folks living in the various five basic forms of Love Organizations. You’ll be able to see if you would enjoy living the days of your life like them - or hate it. If you’re currently living in that same love organization as the writer – or had previously – you may gain insights as to why you enjoyed it - or why you left it.




Why the Writings Were Compiled
Millions of our children throughout the world live in Single Parent Headed Households, often devoid, or mostly devoid, of more then one caring adult presence in their daily lives. And often even that adult has their time and energy consumed with economic issues – trying to earn a living for themselves and their children. Tens of millions more children live in ‘revolving families’ where one of their parents and siblings are changed periodically as their parents change their love organization and/or partners.

No one of sound mind can say this situation is healthy for these children - our lives, or for our future society. So ultimately the solution to solve for is: what type of loving environment offers the most optimal and stable environment for the children. They are our societies’ future.

How to Use the Information
The function of these writings is to help individuals ‘think through’ how they use sensuality and sex to help foster or destroy their relationships - how their partner’s use sensuality and sex - or want to use it. How we accept or reject their goals – and as importantly – why we do. Why your partner’s reject or accept your sensuality-intimacy-sex goals.

Many readers would find it difficult to discuss some of these topics with others, no less an intimate Partner – current or future. And so perhaps one of the additional purposes of these collected writings is to let you know – you are not alone – that others are raising the same questions - have the same fears - seek the same fulfillments and excitements and bonds in this, their very short life.

The Contributors
The writings composing Sensuality-Intimacy-Sex have been compiled over an almost ten year period. Pieces were written in different countries. The contributors have been from both sexes - males and females – observing various types of relationships from their different points of view/perspectives.

The writers are from age 18 to 70 – each has their own story to tell. It also means that they would have different amount of experiences with/in relationships, and carry that age’s frame of reference into their observations. Someone at age 42 after 22 years of experiences, is likely to have different expectations of relationships, family and so forth then they had at say, age 20.

Lastly, the writers come from all three sensuality orientations – opposite gender preference (heterosexual) – same gender preference (gay or lesbian) – or either gender preference (bi-sexual).

Note: as you’ll see from the readings, the five basic Love Organizations do not vary by sex, age or sensual orientation. Every adult lives their days in one of the Love Organizations – and likely will change that love organization later.

Most of the individual pieces in the collection are very short - taking but two or three moments to read. But when it comes to your relationships - past - current - future – you will never forget you read them.

The writings are currently assigned to RelationshipPress.com – publishers of electronic writings based in Asheville, North Carolina. We use USA web servers and comply with all USA FTC regulations.

You can email the publishers here

Kelly White
Editor-in-Chief