Yes - you have a genuine care and concern for your partner…
but that’s different than having similar Sensuality Interest Levels
When Interest Levels are not similar – long-term relationships have problems.
Individuals do have different levels of interest in sensuality.
Some individuals have higher levels. Others have lower levels.
And differences are OK… We’re all different – we come from different experiences.
But what’s not OK for long-term bonded relationships –
is when one with a high level is exclusively paired/coupled
with one with a low level. Then you both have grief coming. Then you have arguments – stony silences - affairs on the side
– even permanent distancing. It’s just a question of time… |